I am LDS and need help with my Pornography Problem

LDS man seeking help with a pornography problem

Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints along with many others striving to follow Christ are troubled by their pornography use and ask the question, “Am I addicted?” A man attending a 12-step recovery group for sexual addiction stated, “I finally figured out that the reason I needed to quit was…

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Hazards of viewing and using Pornography

Graphic showing the hazards of pornography use, related to LDS recovery services.

Pornography use has the potential to cause the following problems: There are many hazards to an individual when viewing or using pornography.  These hazards can have great impact on the lives of the person viewing, their spouse, and their family members.  Pornography is not a victim-less crime.  LDS Hope and Recovery can help you by…

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Discussing Pornography with Your Future Son-in-Law

Parent discussing pornography with a future son-in-law

Discussing Pornography with Your Future Son-in-Law By Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Director, LifeSTAR of St. George, UT Discussing Pornography With Your Future Son-in-Law I clearly remember the lunch appointment with my future father-in-law to ask for his daughter’s hand in marriage. I was a bundle of nerves, but I loved his daughter…

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A Parent and Teenagers guide to dealing with Pornography – Online Education

Parents and teenagers discussing pornography with LDS family services therapists.

What: A six week online course about prevention and treatment of pornography addiction. The course provides education for teens who live in an over sexualized environment. It also addresses parent’s greatest concerns of how to safeguard their children from pornography, how to know if your child has a problem, how to approach the topic and what to do if your child…

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How do I know if I’m Addicted to Pornography?

Start by asking yourself a few questions: Do you ever feel bad or uncomfortable about your sexual behavior? Do you become restless or irritable when you are unable to engage in sexually related behavior? Do you ever feel guilt, remorse, or depression around your sexual behavior? Have you tried and failed to control the amount…

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My Husband has a problem with Pornography

First aid kit symbolizing LDS services counseling for marital and personal support.

My Husband Has a Problem With Pornography: What Should I Do? Q. I discovered that my husband was having cybersex with other women two years ago. I’ve been married 9 years. I found out because he forgot to close an email that i didn’t even know existed and he was so sexually explicit with them.…

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Dear wife of a LDS Pornography Addict with no Sobriety.

Rowboat filled with marbles – a metaphor for the weight of addiction

Dear Wife of an LDS Pornography Addict: Finding Hope and Healing I’m the guy who writes the rowboat and marbles essays about recovery from sex and pornography addiction (www.RowboatAndMarbles.org). I’ve been in recovery (i.e., no porn, no masturbation AND progressive victory over lust) for long enough now to know that complete and lasting sexual sobriety…

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A Road Map for Recovery Leaving Pornography Addiction

Road map illustrating the path to pornography addiction recovery

“This will be the last time” “It wasn’t as bad as other stuff I’ve seen” “It’s not like I look at it everyday” These self-reassuring statements are a small sampling of comments I hear from men who struggle with viewing pornography. They wonder if they are really addicted. Many of them hide in secrecy for…

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Sex Addiction Treatment

Sex addiction treatment options

Sex Addiction Treatment: Effective Steps Toward Lasting Recovery Tiger Woods says he was one, Lindsay Lohan was accused of being one, and Charlie Sheen may be one. We are talking about sex addicts. It is a term that has received a lot of attention lately. Some say it is real, others say it is a…

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